The soup's name is 'Fa' and it sounds like the swear word 'fuck'. Lily mistakes both words. She says: "you told me not to use that word."

When the girls are offended by his words, he says that they have tons of lesbian friends. Cam reminds him that both he and Mitch are also gays. 

According to her, American have forgotten where they come from. They just only think of prep schools and cheeseburgers. Her real problem is that she thinks she is losing her children to America, which means her children are forgetting their origins. 

Her eldest son, Manny, has forgotten all his Spanish and his youngest son is not going to learn Spanish. 

She wants to be gay to be more like them. The other thing she has in common is that she caused a scene in a restaurant, much like her daddies usually do. 

Cam says a racist comment without realizing it. He says: "I think we will all be better off if people would go back to where they came from." The people around react angrily to that comment.